My coworker has a ‘friend with benefits”. Recently she came by his apartment wanting to talk about their relationship. She told him that she wanted more and gave him an ultimatum: Commit or no more sex.
He told her ‘goodbye’.
Unfortunately, she came running back in tears and continues to sleep with him. He refuses to bring her around his friends and now refers to her as ‘that crazy bitch’. Of course, he still sleeps with her, but behind her back he talks about her and disrespects her. He doesn’t value her at all and only takes what she is freely giving. That ‘crazy bitch’ gives to him her body and gets NOTHING in return except scorn and rumors being spread about her.
Ladies, are you someone’s ‘crazy bitch’?
Kaizen4Life 
Was. Once. And never again. However the lesson that men can have sex with women they loath and have NO feelings for has been invaluable…one should not read much into their desire for sex with you. I now have sex, if I need to, on MY terms ONLY. …things work out much better that way.
By: Gal africana on July 11, 2008
at 4:06 am
I’m the crazy bitch. I let myself used and ridiculed by a man for 5 years. can you believe it? but not anymore. The pain and the humiliation is too much.
By: Khulan on June 30, 2009
at 4:37 am
yes. I was the crazy bitch. I let myself be used and ridiculed by a man for 5 years. because i hoped we would somehow end up together. can you believe it?
By: Khulan on June 30, 2009
at 4:38 am
“…men can have sex with women they loath and have NO feelings” It’s incredibly painful to hear but rings true.
By: Khulan on June 30, 2009
at 4:54 am
Yes.. I was someone’s crazy bitch and he said he had to end it but yet he still calls and as a matter of fact came by my house with out calling just showed up last night just wanting to say hi fuck him he is the crazy one.. lol
By: latwhit on October 18, 2009
at 3:46 pm
Wow! Men are nervy bastards, aren’t they? I hope you didn’t even open the door for him.
By: kaizen4life on November 11, 2009
at 11:28 am